Technology plays a role in just about every aspect of life. It is also playing an increasing part in our deaths.
Obituaries are online, final services are being streamed, and digital video tributes are being produced.
One of the more challenging aspects of grief and technology is the role of social media.
Social media has made an impact on our grieving process. There are some ways in which it has proven to be a blessing. There are also many examples of when social media has been a curse.
How Social Media Affects the Grieving Process
Social media platforms have become hubs for both mourning and grieving, as well as support. When not used carefully and cautiously, however, it can impede or alter the grieving process.
Pros & Cons of Digital Grieving
One of the advantages of social media and grieving is the easy access to support. It also makes sharing information about final services more timely and convenient.
On the other hand, a disadvantage of social media in the grieving process is the public nature of posts and the threats, like the rise of identity theft, they can pose to a grieving family and the process.
Using Social Media as a Tool for Grieving
The supportive nature of social media can be beneficial, but care should be taken to maintain the privacy of all involved.
Social media users should do their part in creating a supportive atmosphere without drama or public speculation.
Social Media Is Not a Substitute for In-Person Supporters
While social media can be a positive and convenient way to share thoughts and prayers, they are no substitute for a personal phone call or visit to calling hours. You should still make every effort to express your condolences personally.
Perhaps, it is best to view social media as a different way to express and grieve. It is not, however, a substitute for a hug or the touch of a hand.
Announcing a Death on Social Media
One of the most delicate aspects of digital and social media is how, when, and who should announce the death online. This should be at the direction of the family member closest to the deceased. Announcing a death on social media without the knowledge or permission of those closest to the family can be poor form and etiquette.
Trouble with the Grieving Process? Help Is Available
Keep in mind that if you or someone you care about is struggling with grief, seek help. There are live support groups, online support groups, counseling, and message boards. Seek help. You don’t have to go it alone.
Cremation Society of Greater Cincinnati Is Here to Help
If you feel you could benefit from experience, help, and guidance when it comes to grieving and social media, our staff at the Cremation Society of Greater Cincinnati is here to help. Whether pre-planning or in a current need, we are pleased to serve the families of the Greater Cincinnati area.
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